Brian & Jen
Jen’s version: Brian and I met on March 8, 2008…it was a Saturday morning and I was almost done with my workout at the gym when he passed me and smiled at me at the same moment I spotted him and smiled. See Brian and I had smiled at one another for months, when I look back it could’ve been a year of smiles, mostly in passing because he would arrive to begin pumping iron as I was leaving.
Brian has the most gorgeous smile (not to mention he was super hot from his gym workouts) so I had totally developed a crush on him even though we had never talked. That morning he was earlier than his normal routine due to a optometry appointment and it had been a little while since our paths had crossed so I was very excited to see him…and for some reason I just got this feeling that today was the day…the day we would talk, as I was on the machine next to him lifting weights I caught his eye for just a moment and an awkward sounding “hi” came out of me in what I felt was a very squeaky voice…he greeted me and we shook hands and then we went back to our workouts for a set.
In my head I thought to myself darn, he is sooo hot and totally not going to continue the conversation. For that moment I thought he is just friendly and probably smiles at everyone…then Brian started up some conversation asking what I was doing that day and where I live,etc. Then he did ask for my number and I was sooo happy, now all I had to do was wait for him to call!
I went straight home to my apartment and began telling my roommate that the guy I had told her about for months had talked to me so I was literally jumping up and down in my living room. At the time it was because I was soo excited that this wonderfully hot guy who had been smiling at me at the gym had wanted my number, I had no idea that I had met the love of my life.
That next Tuesday, he called when I was at the gym and left me a message, the moment I got home I called him back and surprise surprise he was at the gym so finally later that night we talked for a few minutes and said we would set-up a date for the next weekend. He called me again that Thursday and we talked for 2 hours, little did I know this hot guy was going to grow to be my best friend and the most amazing man.I enjoy every part of life with Brian and have grown and learned so much with him. I am so grateful that I was brave enough to squeak out that “hi” and that Brian came into my life and swept me off my feet.
Our First Date:
So our first was Saturday, March 15, 2008…we had agreed to go for dinner and drinks…I had told Brian I could meet him since it’s San Francisco and driving around isn’t so fun when your in SF, he insisted on coming to my apt to get me, once he arrived, dressed cute in a new sweater and had a vest over it and a cute hat (was so excited to see him in regular clothes as I had only seen him in gym clothes) we headed to the mission for some drinks and mexican food (my fav) We talked over drinks and I couldn’t get over his gorgeous smile and I just had a wonderful feeling being around him. We stayed out til the wee hours of the morning and had a great time. Here we are nearly 2 years later, so very much in love and enjoying everything together!


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I LOVED this Valentine’s Day love poem, it’s a love poem to me because Brian and Jen is the perfect couple in my eyes. She is a beautiful diamond and he is the most debonair and handsome chocolate drop! They should win because they are so real, honest and true to each other!!
Hello Brian and Jenn! Brian I think it is a blessing that you have found your “virtuous woman”. The Bible tells us that a man who finds a wife, finds a “GOOD THING”…and I am sooo happy for you and Jenn! I haven’t had the opportunity to meet Jenn yet but from the conversations she and your mom have had, I know she is a very kind and sweet young lady. I pray God’s blessings on your union…whether you win this contest or not; you have already won because God brought two beautiful people together! God Special Bless You Always, Auntie Wendy
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We have to get those votes in for Brian (my chocolate thunder!!!) and Jen, who I haven’t met but sounds like an awesome young lady!!! They are the most deserving young couple. To know Brian is to love him so I understand where Jen is coming from. Love u guys and GOOD LUCK!!!
AWwwww…what a Beautiful “How We Met Story.” It reminded me when I first met my late husband.Jen,you sound like a woman,who is truly in love. I’m happy for you and Brian. May God continue to Light your Paths and Guide your Steps…Be Blessed and Good Luck!
Thank you all for the beautiful comments, I am truly blessed to have met Brian and have found the love we share. Thank you Ma Dukes for spreading the story, and to all family I have yet to meet, I look so forward to spending time with all of you in the near future. Love you all! Jen
Brian and Jen!
I am honestly so excited for the both of you, it is so very rare to find “the love of your life”. I wish the both of you all of the blessings in the world.
Love you!!
Be Blessed. Hey lil cous I am happy that u have that one person that makes you whole. From a man in the family that has been through alot and found my soul mate, I will give you this advise. Always be willing to talk, talk, talk. Communication is the basis. when sex and familiarity become day to day. your friendship and love with this woman should be undying. Good luck. Hoping to meet you soon Jen.