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Myla story
I signed up with Table for Six in October 2008 just to get out and meet new people. All my friends were either married or divorced so I wanted to join a group where I could meet other single people. I told myself to just have fun and to lower my expectations. In fact, I never expected to meet anyone worthy of a relationship at T46.

I attended a total of 4 dinners and I had Lex (a.k.a. Ponytail Guy) at my table 3 of those times. He was interesting to talk to but definitely not my type. Lex was at a Progressive dinner when we talked about the upcoming T46 Christmas Party. I was not sure about going to the Christmas Party but Lex convinced me that it would be a lot of fun. I went home that evening and signed up.

I went to the T46 Christmas Party at the Sir Francis Drake looking “hot” in my new red dress. I ran into a few people I had met at prior dinners and once again, I ran into Lex. We started talking and eventually walked into the ballroom to find a seat. I walked into the ballroom and began scanning the tables. Some of the tables had mostly women or the men were not interesting or too old. When I got to the last table on the left, I saw a table with two gentlemen and two women. The two men had potential so I sat myself down and Lex sat right next to me. In my mind, I was at the only table with potential in that entire ballroom with over 200 people.
After dinner, I went to the restroom and when I came back, my seat was taken so I sat at the empty seat between David to my left and Bryan to my right. Bryan was busy talking to the lady to his right. He had been talking to her since I sat down at the table so I just assumed that he was with her. I introduced myself to Bryan but he quickly returned to his conversation with the lady to his right. I started talking to David for about 5 minutes and learned that Bryan was a professor at Sac State. As for David, I determined he was full of himself and I was definitely not interested in him.

After a few dances, I went to the restroom again. This time, there was a line so I sat at one of the arm chairs by the restroom. Bryan also went to the bathroom a few minutes later and while he waited for his turn, he came over and asked if he could share my seat. Bryan and I talked a bit until the men’s room came available. After he came out, he told me I could use the men’s restroom and I did. When I was done, I came out and sat back down next to Bryan. I don’t know what time that was but we talked and talked and talked until the T46 party was over and David came to find us. Neither of us realized how quickly time passed.

It was only midnight and we were not really to call it the night so we went to Harry Denton’s at the top of Sir Francis Drake – Bryan and me with David and his date. Bryan kept on sneaking little kisses on the check and kept on holding my hands. We talked, danced and had a good time. Bryan told me he made $56,000 a year and I told him what I made. In hindsight, perhaps that wasn’t a good idea.

At 2:00 am, the bar closed and it was time to go home. While I waited for my car, Bryan and I exchanged phone numbers. Bryan asked me if we were going to play the dating game and I said “NO”. However, I told him that I was really busy during the holidays and that I was planning to take my kids on a vacation. I said this so he would know I wasn’t blowing him off in case we didn’t talk during the holidays.

Bryan and I had great chemistry and that scared me. I could not believe I met someone so seemingly wonderful. I went home that night trying to come up with 1,001 reasons why I should not pursue a relationship with Bryan. I wasn’t ready… It was too good to be true… What would mom think?… And truth be told, I was afraid. I was afraid of getting hurt again. I couldn’t sleep that night and ultimately convinced myself that I was not going to call Bryan. I was just not ready for a relationship yet.

Anyway, I got out of bed that morning and received a text from Bryan. It said “…Thank you for coming into my life.” With that text, my heart melted and I had to at least call him back. From then, we talked on the phone morning, noon and night. I wanted Bryan to attend my 40th birthday party but I wasn’t sure if I was ready to have him meet my kids and friends. In the end, I decided to invite Bryan and I was really disappointed that he was unable to attend.
Bryan and I talked about anything and everything. I was willing to share my past with him. By the time Bryan came to visit on January 1st, 2009, I think I was falling in love with him. And here we are, 14 months later…

Bryan’s Story
I Dr. Bryan K Hickman, was hanging out with David Corrick, a buddy of mine from different table for six events. David and I had never liked each other at any of the events. In fact it was more so Mel tossed Osterholm of who had the biggest penis. I’ve being of African-Americans, dissent was naturally the winner. Unfortunately, David was simply a penis envy. But, that’s another story. I was soon to befriend David on a different level not the one assumed to be homosexual. I didn’t think of him that way I was just looking for friends to hang out with. I was very interested in going out and hang it out with guys or girls within a social gathering. David and I decided that we were going to go to a Christmas party.

At the St. Francis Drake In San Francisco California. Was very unsure about going to somewhere outside my comfort zone. I lived in Sacramento California for a number of years and did not want to leave my familiar surroundings to put myself in an unfamiliar environment. Nevertheless, David talked me into going to this Christmas Gala occasion to celebrate and meet pretty women. Being the man with the biggest penis I decided it would behoove my penis to get some action. It was dying and withering away. So, I told myself that I was definitely going to get some type of action from someone at this gala. This was simply to psych myself up in case I was going to take a cold shower late at night. So, I psych myself up with the Swim and never sink attitude.

I made sure that nose hairs are cut. the toe nails where cut, the forest was cut. There was not a single hair out of place and made sure the suit was pressed and shoes were shine. I was 100% looking GQ. I did not want to look like a metrosexual but, I did want to look GQ. David and I drove from Sacramento to St. Francis Drake in San Francisco. We got there and checked in are hotel. It was pretty cool to be able to be out of the stereotypical environment of day-to-day life. We were to while studs on the loose. Looking for a couple of nice fillies. Preferably with sexual needs.. I was really excited and hopeful that I would meet a nice girl instead of the common bona fide hood rats. One that had class and style, also common decency. Hopefully, she would not be so inclined to fulfill my wants and needs that night. I was training on some higher level of thinking that all of mine sexual advances would be turned down. This was a surer bona fide way to know that she was worth my time. And that she needed to be pursued with due diligence. If in fact she gave it up it would be simply just another one night stand. I was not looking for her any one night stands for longevity but I was looking for a one night stand for sexuality. So I had a conundrum.

Nevertheless, I threw the cards up in the air and I told myself let them fall where they may. So, David and I, got to be hotel ballroom early and decided to make sure there was no chance to miss beautiful women coming and in sitting down. We positioned are self’s away from the door so we could see everyone coming and going. Also so there would be no surprises to our dismay. Unfortunately, we’ve had a few of those with other table for sixes parties. Or some of the old one night stands would show up and it would be kind of awkward for David. Fortunate for mean, I’ve been very solid and not having had intercourse for months if not years, (one loses sense of time,) nevertheless, the women came in droves more so too old than two young. I’ve being only in my early 40s I could not see myself taking care of a 90-year-old woman and calling her girlfriend. I was just not interested in anything they came to the table although I had to be nice to people at the time.

So as I was sitting alone, to ladies came to the table one set next to myself and another set next to David. They started a conversation with the usual jabber of what to do and where do you work. David is a district attorney in Sacramento I am a university professor at California State University Sacramento. We both are very happy within our perspective feels. David’s story, change from one thing to another. After awhile he started telling people he was a garbage man. It was kind of funny because fortunately he make sure that doctors are put in jails for medical misdoings., I am a bilingual multicultural education instructor I teach teachers how to teach multicultural children.

These ladies were interested in and what we did we were not so interested in what they were doing. David, was soon sought after by one lady she thought that if she Keep On buying him drinks he’d be so plastered that he would not mine how ugly she was. And not necessarily ugly on the outside but ugly on the inside also. My friend or lady that was speaking to me was not so necessarily ugly on the inside she was just a bad looking movie on the outside. She is very nice and we got along really well but I just could not get past the external appearances of her. And that 90 year old thing was just pulsating in my mind all night long.

We continued our conversation and spoke about different people as they came to the door, she persisted to point out to me different ladies, that had interesting things about them such as: she looks pretty, what about her her hair is nice, look at her hands, her nails redone. These were just attributes, about different body parts that sometimes was interesting charming and funny. Nevertheless, I was enjoying myself and I persisted to ignore anyone else that was not making me laugh. This lady had me in stitches all night long. I was not necessarily laughing at people other than laughing at the jokes she and I was developing as a common repertoire between us. So the night went on, and other people came through. Immediately in the corner of my eye , someone came to the table that I didn’t see come in the door and we still do not remember seeing her come in the door. She sat down with a ponytail guy I thought they were together. I swear they were together they came through and sat down together. He pulled her chair he looked like he was interested and such I thought they were together. Fortunately for me, they were not together.

Now this is where it’s interesting; Myla decides between myself and David she was interested in David. She has started talking to him and seem like she was very interested in and what he had to say. I on the other hand was interested in her however, I didn’t want to creep her out and I didn’t want to mess up her nice pretty red dress. I really didn’t want to insult her, and I didn’t want to say anything stupid, I had always I did and wants, I couldn’t figure out the light coming what I wanted to do other than say something like quote hi I’m Dr. Bryan Hickman. That may have been impressive to someone if in fact I knew their social economic status. Unfortunately, I did not know hers so I made sure that I just said my name is Bryan. She had spoken with poise and grace and had captured my heart within a minute of space. Although, I played off like I was not interested. Women like when you play hard to get. Men like when you play hard to get. We both like the game but neither of us would admit to being so ridiculously silly in playing. So, she persisted on to talk to my friend and I persisted on not to pay her any mind other than to give her glance or look every once in a while, to let her know I knew she was there. Unfortunately, I play the game a little too well and she got up and left.

I was very disheartened by her movement away from my seat. I didn’t know where she went I looked on the dance floor and I could not find her. I decided she must have left with the ponytail guy because, he was not there either.

I was very sad and upset that I’d missed my opportunity once again. Nevertheless there were other women there that were hitting on me all night Long and winding to do one night stand in. I was not interested in fact I was thoroughly grossed out by their proposal. I told myself we are in San Francisco one of the capitals of diseases. Nevertheless, my ignorance protected me from having sex with anyone. All the sudden, like a shining bright light this urge to use the restroom I came over me. I’d not been to the bathroom all day and I had to go really bad. I decided that it was time to leave my comfort zone by David and go to the restroom. As I’m sauntering very slow and begrudgingly to the restroom I happened to spot in the corner of my eye the lady of my Dreams. Myla, She was sitting and waiting for the restroom I checked the door for the men’s restroom and it was locked.

Unfortunately, there was someone in. I had to go real bad by this time of the only thing I could do was to sit down by myla, and make sure she knew I didn’t want to play the game anymore. I was interested in being close to her that I really did like her. I asked if I could sit down, I believe she thought, their open chairs you can sit down she was rather shocked when. I asked her to move when I told her to scoot over. Yes, I told her to scoot over at a gas, I knew that from my multicultural background that different cultures either appreciate or does appreciate certain aggressiveness. I knew my the being Asian-American would certainly appreciate aggressiveness most Asian-Americans are submissive and dominance usually rules over those people. I had a 50-50 chance to either break the barrier of ice surrounding her heart or fail in the attempt. Nevertheless I was going to gamble with my one shot and one-shot only. I sat down beside her this is a clear indication that she was interested in what I had to offer. I made sure she knew that I was interested in being sincere and honest and four right. That I would always be a close companion of mature sincerity. I told her of my disgruntled pass and I told her of my ups and downs of about relationships. She spoke to me about her marriage and her children this was a very interesting story I was shocked to hear her some of the things I heard. The bathroom opened up on the men’s side. I decided to use the restroom after several people had gone in one I’ve sat down.

While I was in the restroom I was thinking to myself don’t screw this up else anything dumb no sane thing stupid just be yourself be funny be witty and charming and most of all be polite don’t do anything wrong. You are Dr. Hickman and you are gainfully employed. This in itself is an honor with in these trying times. Also, she is an Asian-American woman you are a multiculturalist and you can use your knowledge of multiculturalism to conquer her fears and trials and tribulations. I was putting together my repertoire to continue the conversation to make sure every 20 minutes or so there would be a laugh or chuckle on something that I said that was funny. I made sure she was interested in everything I had to say. Laughter, was abundance. She seemed to be a very smart and intelligent woman.

As I’m sitting alongside her I’m thinking well I like you. But will she passed the test will, she sleep with me on the first date. I’m hoping the answer is no. I’m hoping that she will turn me down on my face. I am a lollipop ready to be licked. I look so Good it would be extremely difficult for someone to say no. I was sure I was going to have sex with her on the first night and I was very upset about this positive situation. In fact it was very negative because, I liked her so much. She decided she needed to use the restroom and I offered the men’s restroom to her I was convinced she was the right person because she used the men’s restroom. Never have I seen a girl knowingly used the men’s restroom knowing the restroom it been so heinously disgusting and unsanitary.

She came out of the restroom and I thought for sure it was the end of our conversation I thought she was going to head back to the table we were both sitting at to the ponytail guy. I was not going to stop her from walking by me because there was a nice easy redhaired sitting across from me looking like it was Christmas already. I was very attracted sexually to the girl while the love of my life was in the restroom. Not knowing what to do I took the high road and left the low road alone. Myla sat down right beside me. After the restroom I was kind of shocked.

I asked myself would I like to be stuck with this girl. She wants to be stuck with me for the entire night I soon realize that it was more than just eye liked her I soon realized that I do have a long-lasting would sure relationship with her. I realize that I’ve been missing in the better part of myself my soul mate. I realize that time stands still for no man but the time flies by for love. Soon David came to find us and we were out of time. The party was over and was time to move to another party to different part of the hotel. We persisted on to the other part of the hotel and we talked more at the club. It was important for me to let her know I’m not one of those professors that makes millions of dollars. I stated that I made $56,000 a year and I was up to my years in financial ruin because my student loans. I wanted to make sure to your every opportunity to not call or not pursue a relationship. I wanted to make sure that I had given her all of my dirty laundry so she could make a conform decision or other or not to pursue a relationship. I found out rather quickly that she made four times the amount of money that I may.

I was not impressed and gave me ammunition to not pursue a relationship with her making too much money can make some people into control freaks. I was hoping that the money was simply a way to live a comfortable life and not a way to live. I was sure she was interested in me because we kept on holding hands through the model crowd of people. This was a clear indication she didn’t lose me. We close down the club, and David offered to buy us a separate room for our stay at the hotel. Myla insisted on going home because she had to get back to her children. I was a complete gentleman and walked her to her car. I got keys from the Butler of the hotel and opened her door. I gave her a hug and thanked her for the evening. She informed me that she was busy and that she was not able to reach out soon I said in I’ll leave it the ball in your court. I wanted to make sure that she knew either way it was a pleasant evening and a wonderful experience.

David was with the Asian girl he’d picked up at the Table for Six dinner David already purchased a separate room so he could have his sexual extirpating in a private room with this girl. I was now David’s pimp. David decided that he needed condoms and I was the person to buy those condoms. I was roaming around the Drake asking everyone and anyone at the hotel for condoms they looked at me kind of strangely and I replied it’s not for me it’s for my friend. I found condoms for David and order myself a dinner of $92 on David. Condoms cost four dollars, I got a dinner for 92. I charged the dinner to his room and ate like a king and slept like a baby.

The next morning I woke up and thought to myself I should text her something I just don’t know what and the only thing I come up with was at the time something very sincere and sweet. Quote thank you for coming into my life unquote. That was the beginning of the relationship as December 13, 2008 . Here we are of February 13, 2010 and I still am sincerely compassionately in love with Myla Puyat